Don't quench your child's generosity. There may come a time when your children want to give away something you think they should keep. If at all possible, let them be generous.
Recently one of our sons wanted to give his favorite book, which he had
recently received, to another friend as a birthday present. I talked
with him, making sure he knew he wouldn't get it back afterward. He
understood, and he really wanted to bless someone else. I let him, and
he hasn't regretted it.
Some families require their children to set aside part of an allowance for giving. This can be a good exercise in teaching the discipline of giving. But generally, I think mothers should focus on inspiring generosity instead of requiring
it. A child's personal motivation will produce longer-lasting results
than a parent's force. When giving is a lifestyle, it becomes a natural
way for a child to interact with the needs he or she notices in the
world.
In the process of nurturing generosity
in our little ones, we find ourselves blessed. Through the act of
giving away, we gain infinitely more - depth in our relationships, our
marriage, our children, and our faith.
How do you attempt to instill a generous spirit within your family?
Read more of this article by Jamie Martin of Steady Mom here
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